After Every Break Up
It's hard to act as ordinary friends, when in fact sobrang close kayo dati.
It's hard not to be paranoid that the other is probably pursuing another person already.
It's hard not to be a bit jealous when the other is about to fall into someone else's arms, eh dati sayo siya.
It's hard that you still enjoy each other's company but you know deep inside that it's not getting the both of you anywhere.
It's hard that sometimes it feels like parang masaya kung kayo na lang ulit - pero parang hindi rin naman.
It's hard that sometimes you think of getting back but at the back of your head, you know that you both can't and you both don't want to.
It's hard when you're no longer willing to compromise.
It's hard not to make your head ache on whether the other also finds it hard to be in this kind of set up.
It's hard that you unintentionally still hurt each other's feelings kahit hindi na kayo.
It's hard not to be sad when you start to think that the break up has brought the both of you in a hard situation like this.
It's hard.
pag may iba na..
Submitted by Jing on July 16, 2008 - 3:56pm.
do you guys still try or atleast attempt to steal the girl back? hehe
Hindi ko pala nasagot ito
Submitted by jonsdmur on October 9, 2008 - 12:58pm.
Hindi ko pala nasagot ito dati... yes I attempt to steal... pero napunta rin sa wala...
Nice post!
Jonsdmur
kung maaari muli
Submitted by talulot on September 13, 2008 - 1:29pm.
uy frend, parang ikaw dapat kumanta ng kung maaari muli ko ah....
"hinahangin ang talulot na malaya, mula sa bulaklak na sinta hanggang sa matabang lupa.. siya ay ligaya, musa ng pagkadakila.."
and it's harder....
Submitted by dyeppri on July 15, 2008 - 4:43am.
... and it's harder to continue to love someone who is not loving you anymore!
.... (and it' s) better to find some1 who can give(Love) the way you're giving.
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Pray harder and He will give you the BEST!!! (i'm sure.) 
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ako lang po ito at bahala ka kung tatanggapin mo...
waaaaaaa! okay na okay ang
Submitted by jonsdmur on July 15, 2008 - 11:30am.
waaaaaaa! okay na okay ang komento mo ha.... serious na serious ehheehehehhe jonsdmur
Hala Gandang Subject to ah!!
Submitted by spike_west on July 16, 2008 - 5:47pm.
Siguro ang maganda ko lang masasabi ay learn to let go of the feelings rather than letting go of the person . We have to program our mind that he/she is not the person destine for you. And there's someone out there who's meant for you.
Moving on is a decision. If you still dwell on your pains, bitterness and longings you will never recover, but if you move forward and try to look for another love then you can truly move on and recover. However before going into a relationship again, you should be ready to give your whole self to that person and you should totally get over all of the feelings from your previous relationship. "Its gonna be a new start and a new love"
Free yourself from the world of "What-IF's" , coz this will linger in your life and mind forever. Give yourself a chance to love again, and give her/his freedom to find his/her happiness. Acceptance is the key.
Maraming nagsasabi na madaling magpayo kesa sundin ang payo . Pero Naggaling lang ako sa isang break up 4 months ago, at ito ang nagbigay sa akin ng motibasyon sa buhay. Nagawa ko ito bakit hindi mo makakayang gawin. Maigsi lang ang buhay kaya pilitin na lang natin maging masaya at wag natin pahirapan pa at gawing kumplikado ang buhay natin. enjoy natin ang bawat segundo ng buhay natin kasi hindi natin alam kung kelan ito matatapos at mawawala.
Yun lamang po,
Salamat
Spike
pa-join!
Submitted by talulot on October 7, 2008 - 3:31am.
hay spike, pareho tayo, pero 8 mos. palang kami nagkahiwalay, kaya i believe i have authority too to advise... hehehe
i agree with spike. free youself with what if's... give yourself enough space to grow and to re-asess your heart.
my friend texted me this message after i told him i am giving a part of me to bring my whole self again. let me share it with you...
"if it's not yours, it'll never be yours no matter how much you are obsessed with it. But if in case, it's for you, it'll always for you no matter how hard you try to avoid it"
in between waiting for the right person, and letting go of the past, be the right person yourself. build yourself and complete yourself before you will send yourself away again for all eternity..
parang ang sarap kantahin ng song ni barbara streisand...
'they say if you love someone, then set them free, if they come back again
then in the end, it was meant to be..."
"hinahangin ang talulot na malaya, mula sa bulaklak na sinta hanggang sa matabang lupa.. siya ay ligaya, musa ng pagkadakila.."
ang gling nio po
Submitted by bhelle on September 13, 2008 - 10:06pm.
ang galing nio po, prang ung lhat lhat ng nrramdaman ko nnd2 sa pnost nio..
nkkaiyak..
kya nga po ako msyah d2 sa FW kc pra bng nkklimut ako sa probz ko..en dhil n rin sa nssbi ko dto lhat ng gusto kong sbhin..
sbrang gnda po tlga..
nkkaiyak sbra..
kip up d gud work..
tc..
maganda po ang akda n'yo..
Submitted by baby star on September 15, 2008 - 12:07pm.
maganda po ang akda ninyo at nararamdaman ko ang emosyon kahit hindi pa po ako nagkakaBF..takot tuloy ako...kaya pag-aaral muna talaga ang inaatupag ko sa ngayon at hindi ang BF eh. mag-antay sila! haha!!!
It's hard tlga gurl...
Submitted by aireen on September 15, 2008 - 3:46pm.
It's hard tlga gurl... pretending that it's okei.. kahit hindi naman.. hindi ka makakamove-on kung parati ka n lng nakalingon sa kung ano yung past na... try to do other things.. para d ganun kasakit... para at least malibang d ba?
lahat ng bagay hard.. whether relationship.. carrer or etc. man ito... walang madali sa mundong ito... 
basta alwayZ keep in mind.. masakit man or mahirap... may natutunan taung aral sa lahat ng yun... d ba??? 
"Kung makikita tayong
"Kung makikita tayong muli
relax ka lang sino mang kasama mo
'di na niya malalaman na
minahal kita noon..."
Easy to say but it's hard to do... I experienced this kind of feelings...It's hard not to be a bit jealous when the other is about to fall into someone else's arms, eh dati sayo siya.
Kahit di mo ipahalata sa kasama niya na dati ay kayo masakit pa rin sa damdamin... yun bang parang wala lang... kahit na gusto mong sabihin sa kasama niya na... hoy dati kami niyan.. nauna ako sayo.... heheh
Several months after our break up muli kaming nagkita... siyempre noong una hindi alam ng guy na ako ang bf dati...
Masakit palang makita ang ex mo na may kasamang iba... naiisip ko tuloy ano bang meron ang guy na ito na wala ako...
Minsan naisip ko na sana kami uli....
Minsan nararamdaman ko na nagseselos ako... na dapat hindi naman.... eh wala na kami... pero masakit palang makita na magka partner sila sa disco club.... malambing na sumasayaw ng sweet music habang sila ay pinapanood ko... grabe sakit pala.... kahit wala na kayo....
Pero ang mas masakit ang umasa na magiging kayo muli.....
wla lang.... jonsdmur