For lovefools like yours truly who are hanging in limbo trying to figure out where they stand in their respective quasi-relationships, here's Jill's golden nuggets of wisdom to choke on.

1.    I have to be braver and stronger. I must be my sweet and strong self. There's nothing to lose and everything to gain.

2.    If you misinterpret my sweetness, it's your fault, not mine.

3.    Mabenta yata ang beauty ko. Swerte ng lalaking magugustuhan ko.

4.    I deserve a f#$&%!g phone call.

5.    I've given you more than enough time.

6.    I must stop being the right girl for you. Are you the right guy for me?

7.    If you're having doubts, then I'm having doubts.

8.    I must preserve my self-dignity at all costs.

9.    I can't be that girl who waits around on a guy.

10.  I am a strong woman I don't need a man to complete me.