Marriage
I just wanted to share it with you peeps... My friend is planning to get married next year, and she's now fond of reading some stuff about marriage. I also got interested! 
I'm learning... hihihihihi
It goes like this:
Anybody's marriage is a harvest of suffering.
Your marriage vow was a promise to suffer.
The person you married was likely to get hurt along the route, sooner or later,
more or less, but hurt. and you promised to hurt with ur spouse.
A Marriage is a life of shared pain.??
It's true,but most of the time it's not a shared pain, only one suffers.. sad but true.. 
This makes sense...
In a husband-wife relationship, being a servant is an act of love,
a gift to the other person to make his/her life fuller.
It is not something to be demanded. It is an act of strength and not of weakness,
it is a positive action which has been chosen to show ur love to each other.
hahaha...TAMA! don't demand or force, 
willingness and tawag dyan!!! hehehehe but not to the point na magpakamaid ka, literally servant!!.. hahaha
FYI sometimes it's not that bad na magpakamartir or maging mapagbigay or "servant". Most of the time kasi dun din narerealized ng partner mo your worth...
Kindness is love's willingness to enhance the life of another.
It is the readiness to move close to another and allow him/her to move close to you.
Unconditional love is trying to be content with those things that dont live up
to your expectations.
Love is to commit yourself without guarantee,
to give yourself completely in the hope that your love will produce love
in the loved person.
"Doing good to someone, even if that someone is not doing any good to you." (tanging yaman dialog... :)) hahahaha, la lng!
Love is an act of faith, and whoever is of little faith is also of little love.
The perfect love would be the one that gives all and expects nothing.
it would, of course, be willing and
delighted to take anything it was offered, the more the better.
But it would not ask for anything.
For if one expects nothing, he can never be deceived or disappointed.
It is only when love demands that it brings on pain.
It's true that if you don't expect something you won't get hurt.. But you know what? the reality is that we can't avoid to expect or rather i should say "hope" something from the person we love ..Specially in husband/wife relationship, because that's where we can pull-out some strenght and inspiration to go on everyday.. right? 
We hope to be loved by our someone...We nurture love, and we are hoping that it will also bear fruits of love & sweetness..
Share ko lang po: I heard it from the radio, the DJ says: " Walang taong hindi malambing or mapagmahal... it's on how you treat your lady/man"... Its means it all depends on how you treat the love of you life, agree? 
062008
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thanks for reading
Submitted by aireen on October 3, 2008 - 10:21am.
thanks for reading dai..:)
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hi aireen
Submitted by crischelle on October 3, 2008 - 4:28pm.
gogogo!!! gurl........
i like it huh>>>
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tnx! crischelle.. :)
Submitted by aireen on October 6, 2008 - 3:01pm.
tnx! crischelle.. :)
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masarap jon... pero
Submitted by aireen on October 6, 2008 - 3:14pm.
masarap jon... pero syempre.. kaylangan handa ka sa lahat.. emotionally, physically and mentally... di lang dahil mahal mo sya...
sabi nila pag mahal mo ang isang tao sapat na ang love sa inyong dalawa...para magsama habang buhay.. pero ang realidad.. hindi... marami kang dapat isaalang-alang...
"di ito isang kanin na basta mo na lng isusubo" di ba? di ba?
nyahahaha
haist!
goodluck!!! hehehe
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Sabagay tama ka.. alam mo
Submitted by jonsdmur on October 6, 2008 - 3:19pm.
Sabagay tama ka.. alam mo marami nagsasabi na mag-asawa na raw ako.. naisip ko pina-iisipan mabuti ang bagay na ito. Tulad ng sabi mo.. hindi ito kain na pag sinubo at iluluwa pag mainit.
Pero masarap sa pakiramdam ang makitang naglalakad sa altar ang mahal mo...
Jonsdmur
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Kasal-kasali-kasalo?
Submitted by ilyana on May 28, 2009 - 1:38pm.
Sa umpisa lang naman masarap ang mag-asawa, pag tumagal na, nagsasawa na ang majority, kaya doon na nagsisimula ang awayan, hindi mase save ng LOVE lang ang samahan ng dalawang magkabiyak, andun na yung trust, patience, at akung anik-anik pa.
COmplicated masyado yang Love, btw-JONSDMUR according to the survey, married men live longer than single men. Unfortunately married men wish to die sooner rather than later...(Lolness)
♥♥-ILyaNah-♥♥
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Tama ka nga Ilyana sa umpisa
Submitted by aireen on May 28, 2009 - 2:02pm.
Tama ka nga Ilyana sa umpisa lang masarap ang pag-aasawa... Marami kasing pagbabago na nagyayari paglipas ng ilang taon.... tapos magiging komplikado na ang lahat.. haist!
Salamat sa pagdaan!
cheers!
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Wow!
Submitted by noelablon on May 28, 2009 - 3:58pm.
Ganda ng mga words pero parang medyo one sided, pakiramdam ko ang nagsasalita ay babae at nagsasabi ng ibang saloobin niya, tama lang dahil babae ka.
I have been married for 5 years pa lang. What can I say about marriage? Tama ang sabi ng iba, sa simula ay masarap pero katagalan ay hindi na - ang sabi ng iba dahil nagkaka-sawaan na. It should not be that way pero yun ang nangyayari. There are reasons bakit umaabot sa ganoong punto gaya ng pagkukumpara ng kapareha sa iba, individuality at kung ano-ano pa.
There is no perfect marriage kaya nga marami sa US ang naka-ilang asawa na ay di pa rin natatagpuan ito eh. Marriage habang tumatagal ang nape-perfect pero if ever na mag-asawa ulit back to zero sila.
Marriage is not actually harvesting of suffering, It is enduring the suffering together.
Unconditional love is to love everything about him/her from top to bottom, cover to cover, past to future, etc..
Ang kasal ay pagiging isa. Kung ang isa sa mag-asawa ay nag-iisip ng bakit ako na lang palagi ang ganito, bakit ako ang ganun yun ang individuality at yun ay delikado sa mag-asawa. Dapat wag hayaan umabot doon kaya dapat napapag-usapan bago lumala. Doon nag-sisimula ang pagku-kumpara sa iba at lamat sa samahan.
Kaya ko rin nasabing sa simula ay masarap at sa katagalan ay hindi na dahil para sa akin ay mas masarap na. Kami ng misis ko, pag may nakikita kaming maaaring maging problema ay di kami takot sabihin sa isa't-isa ang nararamdaman. Maaaring magkaroon ng pagtatalo pero ito ay panandalian lamang. Gaya ng sabi ko, ito ay proseso ng pagpe-perpekto ng samahang mag-asawa.
Ang nakakalungkot nga lang ay ipina-papalit ng iba ang matagal na samahan nila ng kanilang asawa kapalit ang bagong pakikipag-sapalaran sa piling ng iba.
Ang masasabi ko lang, think 1000x before going into marriage. If you believe in God, think and pray for guidance! if not think and think (that makes 2000x hehe).
Cute talaga nito.
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"Ang masasabi ko lang, think
Submitted by aireen on May 28, 2009 - 5:04pm.
"Ang masasabi ko lang, think 1000x before going into marriage. If you believe in God, think and pray for guidance! if not think and think (that makes 2000x hehe)."---korek!!
salamat sa mahabang komento Noel!
sana nga lahat ng lalaki willing makinig sa mga sentimiyento ng mga babae, para maging oki alright ang lahat ng relationships..haist! may ilan din kasi na di tumatanggap ng mga pagkukulang at pagkakamali nila.. kaya tuloy nagkakaroon ng prob .. imbes na solusyunan.. mas lumalaki pa tuloy!hehehe
one sided naman ako?! hehehe
cheers!
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Submitted by sinta isaac on May 28, 2009 - 5:30pm.
bakit kaya ako, simula pa pagkabata hindi ko pinangarap na maikasal?
bakit nga kaya?
noong nag highschool naman ako, akala ko maisasama na ang kasal sa listahan ng mga pangarap ko sa buhay, pero hindi pa din,
kasi busy ako sa kaka imagine na ako si Ruffa G. nakasakay sa puting kabayo at naka puting kamiseta lang at wala panty bilang isang Pinakamagandang babae sa balat ng lupa. 
kaya siguro wala sa isip ko ang kasal kasi mas pangarap ko ang maging boldstar.
tagal na nitong blog mo na 'to, nakaka inspire...
...Ya soshla s uma...
Hindi ko ninais magsinungaling, nakatuwaan ko lang sumulat ng piksyon sa pahina ng aking bibig
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Boldstar!? O sige pag nanalo
Submitted by aireen on May 28, 2009 - 5:46pm.
Boldstar!?
O sige pag nanalo na ako sa lotto, ako ang producer mo.. hehehe
Sinta Pinakamagandang Babae sa Balat ng Lupa.. hehehehe
onga tagal na nitong post ko.. salamat at nainspire ka...
cheers!
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talaga gusto mo maging b...
Submitted by noelablon on May 28, 2009 - 7:42pm.
Gusto mo palang maging boldstar. Alam mo may panata ako sa sarili ko na di ko na babalikan ang mga bold movies na yan - I mean panoorin ah. Pero pag nangyari yung pangarap mo ay natupad din ang pangarap ko noon - ang makakilala ng tunay na boldstar haha! at siyempre bili ako copy ng movies mo - orig at hindi pirated or hindi download sa torrentbay or piratebay.
kay aireen
pag nanalo ka sa lotto at na-produce mo ang pelikula ni sinta sana maalala mo akong bigyan ng copy - yung producers cut. hehe!
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Noel, naku! syempre
Submitted by aireen on May 29, 2009 - 10:47am.
Noel, naku! syempre kaylangan may approval ni Sinta yun pagnagkataon.. bka makasuhan pa ako.. nyahahaha
cheers!
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Submitted by sinta isaac on May 29, 2009 - 11:41am.
wala akong karapatang maging boldstar. naku aireen, malulugi ka lang.
at kay noel,
abangan mo ang pelikulang Ang pinakamagandang balat sa hayop na lupa, 'yan ang magiging title ng pelikula ko.
hala wala ng sense 'yung comment ko, hindi na konektado sa post mo, pasensiya na ai...
...Ya soshla s uma...
Hindi ko ninais magsinungaling, nakatuwaan ko lang sumulat ng piksyon sa pahina ng aking bibig
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To Noel :-)
Submitted by ilyana on May 28, 2009 - 5:29pm.
Korek ka dyan, Isipin nalang kung nung umpisa, seksi si misis inda end, naging palanggana na ang mukha, kaya nawalan ng gana si Mister, imaginin mo nalang na yang no.2 mo, sa umpisa rin lang sya maganda, inda end, aasim din yan.
Pahabol pa: I dont think nakukuha rin sa dasal. Kung ayaw na sa yo ng mahal mo, no choice ka, magrosaryo kaman gabi-gabi, solo flight ka nalang. Sabi nga ni Luca- kung me Audience participation sa pag-ibig consider it a bonus.
♥♥-ILyaNah-♥♥
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yeah
Submitted by galatea hopkirk on May 28, 2009 - 5:29pm.
hi ate Aireen. let's celebrate love. hehe. ito ang pinakagusto ko.
Unconditional love is trying to be content with those things that dont live up
to your expectations.
Love is to commit yourself without guarantee,
to give yourself completely in the hope that your love will produce love
in the loved person.
the best yan. hehe. korny mang sabihin pero tunay na hindi naghihintay ng kapalit kapag nagmamahal, kahit kung sino pa man ang minamahal mo. kahit nanay mo, anak mo, asawa mo at kahit kapitbahay mo pa yan.
sabi nga, kapag daw nagmamahal, hindi daw ipinagdadasal na mgbago yung minamahal mo. kundi, ipinagdadasal mong sana magbago ka para matanggap mo yung mga hindi kamahal-mahal sa kanya. =)
"Never trust a person that can think for itself if you can't see where it keeps its brain..."
galatea artemis
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Salamat sa pagdaan
Submitted by aireen on May 28, 2009 - 5:51pm.
Salamat sa pagdaan galatea..
Unconditional love? hmmm ....
positibo ang mga pananaw mo.. (salute)
shared ni kuya amos:
"If I accept you as you are, I will make you worse; however if I treat you as though you are what you are capable of becoming, I help you become that."--johann wolfgang von goethe
cheers!
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oo, Aireen. naniniwala naman
Submitted by galatea hopkirk on May 29, 2009 - 12:01am.
oo, Aireen. naniniwala naman ako sa unconditional love. pero ito siguro ang isa sa mga bagay na hindi ko talga kayang ibigay. ewan ko kung bakit.
astig talga c kuya Amos. hehe. maganda yun. medyo psychological ang aspeto. mas positibo ang dating.
galing!
"Never trust a person that can think for itself if you can't see where it keeps its brain..."
galatea artemis
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Live your life to the
Submitted by aireen on May 29, 2009 - 10:43am.
Live your life to the fullest galatea dear..
Give lang ng give , and don't expect anything in return... kasi masasaktan ka lng..
siguro kya di mo kayang ibigay yung unconditional love, may trauma ka na.. tama ba?:D
ang importante minahal mo sya ng buong puso mo.. at kung di nya yun napansin.. it's not your problem anymore...hehehehe (numb sya!)
cheers!
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oo, medyo na-trauma na ako
Submitted by galatea hopkirk on May 29, 2009 - 12:35pm.
oo, medyo na-trauma na ako dun sa dati. masakit kasi. masakit talaga.
pero ngayon, nagsisimula akong magmahal ulit. at aaminin ko, nahihirapan talaga ako dahil alam kong isang araw, mawawala din lahat. mawawala din siya sa akin.
kung gusto mo, at may oras ka, basahin mo itong bago kong tula.
http://filipinowriter.com/dahil-pagkatapos-ng-sampung-taon-babalik-ka
rock on!
"Never trust a person that can think for itself if you can't see where it keeps its brain..."
galatea artemis
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sabi ko na nga ba!
Submitted by aireen on May 29, 2009 - 1:06pm.
sabi ko na nga ba! haist!
cge po check ko yung link..
cheers!
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salamat. medyo magulo ang
Submitted by galatea hopkirk on May 29, 2009 - 11:12pm.
salamat. medyo magulo ang pagkakahabi ng tula kong iyon. ganun din kasi kagulo ang isipan ko, ganun din kabalisa ang damdamin ko.
haay, masakit. pero ganun naman talga.
salamat sa pagdaan sa aking tula.
"Never trust a person that can think for itself if you can't see where it keeps its brain..."
galatea artemis
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Submitted by Rom on May 28, 2009 - 5:50pm.
sabi ko sa isang kaibigan kong ipon ng ipon ng pera na pang pakasal nya raw: "aba, magastos nga ang magpakasal kaya tamang mag-ipon ka para dito, pero dapat mag-ipon ka rin pang pahiwalay--kasi mas magastos yun" at di na siya nag-asawa...
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nyahahahaa.. si kuya Rom
Submitted by aireen on May 28, 2009 - 5:54pm.
nyahahahaa..
si kuya Rom talaga.. tinakot mo naman yung friend mo..hihihih
onga mas magastos ang annulment..
kuya rom na-miss kita..
cheers!
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si uber-kinaiinisan ay wag
Submitted by aireen on May 28, 2009 - 6:07pm.
si uber-kinaiinisan
ay wag na lamang pansinin
sa mga akda mo kami'y pasayahin
magpatuloy--at kami'y iyong kulitin..
"tandaan: ang pag-aasawa ay di garantiya na magiging maligaya ka. minsan ito pa ang magbubulid sa iyo sa pagdurusa. "--hmm...tagay tau!!hehehe
cheers!
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kuya Rom
Submitted by galatea hopkirk on May 28, 2009 - 11:56pm.
kuya rom, astig ka. hehe.
tunay na minsan, mas ngdudulot ng pagdurusa ang pag-aasawa. kaya nga ayaw ko nun. parang ang baduy. wag na lang. kc nakakatakot.
msarap magmahal pero nakakatakot magpatali. ingat ka lagi. =)
"Never trust a person that can think for itself if you can't see where it keeps its brain..."
galatea artemis
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ahahaha
Submitted by talulot on May 29, 2009 - 11:30pm.
tama mas magastos nga un hehehehe kua rom talaga!
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http://soundclick.com/share?songid=7553142
"hinahang
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wow, nakakainspire talaga
wow, nakakainspire talaga ang mga nagpapakasal. hehe..
i could agree, but i can't tell well since i'm not married yet. thanks for this. ^^