ON LETTING GO

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How will you know that it's time to let go?  How will you know when enough is enough?  How will you know that you've cried enough tears?  How will you know that it's time to bid farewell to your love?


Re: ON LETTING GO

if it hurts too much, let go.

When

When you love somebody set him free. Kung alam mo na hindi talaga kayo para sa isa't isa then let go.

How will you know that it's time to let go?

I think nobody lets go. Deep in everybody's heart, there was no letting go. What happens most of the time is SOMETHING IS TAKEN FROM US. We do not have time to let go of it. For instance, when a girl decided to dump a boy who was deeply in love with her, the girl was taken away from the boy. There's no reason of letting go. There's no reason in captivating breeze. There's no reason in imprisoning time. 

On the other hand, you might think it was the girl who let go in this story. However, just like anybody of us who suffers and feels pain, her feelings were taken away from her by time. She had no power to grasp on this feeling if its time for this feeling to vanish.

So the question must be, WHEN WILL I UNDERSTAND? WHEN WILL I SEE THINGS IN A DIFFERENT WAY?  

pagpaparaya

hindi talaga madali magpaalam sa iyong mahal - o sa samahang inalagaan at pinagbuhusan mo ng lakas at mga pangarap. paano ka magpapaalam sa isang napakagandang bagay - sa kabila ng mga away at "frustrations" sa inyong relasyon - paano mo pakakawalan ang nais mong sa iyo lamang? marahil, mas magagawa ng isang tao magparaya kapag nangingibabaw ang kasiyahan ng kanyang minamahal kaysa kanya. pero kung masaya ang taong ito sa kanyang ginagawa - maaaring hindi.

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On Letting Go

For me, the question should be: When can I accept? Sa pagkakatanggap ng nangyari o ng katotohanan, madali nang mag-move-on. Hangga't hindi pa kayang tanggapin ang dahilan ng pagkakasakit, mahihirapan o hindi magkakaroon ng pagkakataon para sa pag-move-on. Ayun lang.