We find reasons for loving someone, not for our benefit, but for the benefit of the one whom we love who tends to ask us why we chose them among the many. In fact, they don't ask us to know why they are loved, but rather to know what we found in them that they cannot accept. There's nothing wrong about falling in love with a pretty face or a fair skin who happens to have a beautiful personality and a kind heart. Even the most beautiful will not admit to their vanity, nor will the humble call to attention their humility.