SCARS..
How long do wounds heal? What do we need to do to remove the scar?
If scars stay, does that mean we can really forgive but not forget?
If it leaves a mark, does that mean it marked our hearts and minds?
Ouch!
Submitted by redbrax on July 16, 2008 - 5:38pm.
Contrary to what intellectuals and experts on relationships think, you cannot let go of pain and heartache just because you willed it to go, it will need time, let it go through the process, the grieving part, the aching part, the longing, part until it reached its most painful peak when you'd feel as if your heart is gonna burst and splinter into thousand fragments, let it break, let it burst it will not kill you anyway nobody died of a broken heart, (at least none that I know of) only after that intense pain will you come to terms and accept that it's really over don't nurse your wound let it heal the natural way don't have it stitched or bandaged by immidiately jumping to another relationship, don't hasten the healing process instead learn from the process slowly as the wound heals the lessons you learn seeps deeply, the more you'll understand! it will definitely leave a scar but that's alright you should be proud of what you've overcome, the scar? wear it like a badge, you earned it!
WOUNDS?!
Submitted by dyeppri on July 16, 2008 - 6:51pm.
If the wound is only skin deep like sunburn or 1st degree it takes only few days or 4, 2nd degree cut or up to superficial dermis maybe a week or two... but third degrre cut ay you need 1st intention healing (suture) 'coz kung 2nd intention healing will have a thick scar or may cause excessive formation resulting to kelloids( can't stop the formation of collagen. Also to prevent exposure and infection.
Kung about human emotion naman ito ay hmmmm. di me magaling dito eh... try to find a new friend na lang at i'm sure this will take only few days para maforget everything!!!gudluck
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ako lang po ito at bahala ka kung tatanggapin mo...
Scars!
Submitted by rose on July 16, 2008 - 8:47pm.
Many of us believe that love is forever, that love never dies. Only to be disillusioned in the end when we find our hands empty and our hearts longing. We mistakenly have looked at love as a need to be fulfilled. But love is only a gift given to us.
we should not hold it in our hearts for we may never find the strength to let it go when it decides to leave. We should only embrace its warmth and glow while it last and then freely open our arms when it's time to say goodbye.When we all fall in love with someone, we don't want that feeling to end for it is everything we are, everything that we wanted to be.
We pray that love will stay and grow in our hearts. But, if it doesn't then we should never let our lives be taken by it, for life should not end where heartaches begin. There is always a reason why we have to move on.
When we have to say goodbye to the feelings we wanted to stay forever, let us not wave our hands with a heavy heart.
For love will have to set its wings free and find the place where it belongs. We may have lost it but then again, when we close our eyes and listen to the echoes of our hearts, we will hear that feeling resounding silently forever.
Then we'll know that it has never left us. For the good that we have become because of love will always stay. It will always be there reminding us that we should be thankful and happy, not because we have lived in our hearts and made us happy........Because there is someone that has been part of our life..
hey ms. rose!
Submitted by redbrax on July 16, 2008 - 9:06pm.
Is it really possible to condition one's mind that when you love you should also be ready to let that love go? and "when we have to say goodbye... not to wave with a heavy heart?" It might sound good and romantic but I don't think its realistic I nearly killed the bastard who usurped my ex-girlfriend.
I'm inclined to agree with
Submitted by pauline hernandez on July 16, 2008 - 10:32pm.
I'm inclined to agree with mr. redbrax, you have to let the pain ride it's peak and allow the cleansing power of pain to renew your heart and mind, pain leads to realization that you are stronger than what you think you are. Overcoming what hurt you, you'll feel like a new person, stronger and wiser.
ad infinitum/pmherz
for me
Submitted by Melanie Quilla on July 17, 2008 - 1:12pm.
i think it depends on how a person "do the process of healing." If you really want to heal, definitely in a right time, you must heal.
If scars stay, does that mean we can really forgive but not forget?
it is hard to forget if you don't want to forget. For me, you shouldn't need to forget because it's part of your life..a part of you...even if it really hurts you, one way or another, it's still a portion of your treasured memory.
my opinion only.
best regards,
melay
For all those who have been
Submitted by rose on July 17, 2008 - 3:36pm.
For all those who have been hurt, a
and still long for that person. Heres something to consider,
do you really want someone who hurts you?
who cheated on you or left you?
Do you want to look into thier eyes and remember all those things they did to you?
Think about it, is "this" really what you wanted?
PEACE BE WITH YOU ALL
SCARS...
Those scars are the lessons you have learned from your bad experiences. These scars should be a reminder for you not fall or do the same mistakes that you have done in the past. I always believe that time heals all wounds; however we have to nurse this wound for immediate recovery or healing. Meaning, you have the power over your wounds, so look for a cure or medicine for your wounds (Probably a friend, new activities or new love).
Never dwell on your sadness and pains. Forget everything that will refresh the wounds of the past, let go of your emotions, and concentrate more on your life. Always remember, this world is bounded by choices, and happiness is also a choice. If we choose to be happy despite of all the negative thoughts and feelings in our lives then definitely we will have the genuine and true happiness that will last for a lifetime. Let go of him/her, stop yourself from being a prisoner of his/her shadows. No one can free yourself from pains and hatred except YOU. Make a choice. Stand up. (There are many things to enjoy in this world. Explore and make a new beginnings).
Yun lamang po
SpiKE