hi aireen, thanks for the advice.. but right now I am staying as a friend... hindi ko pa siya kayang mawala... ewan ko ba, seguro ganun talaga... pero unti-unti aalis din ako pagdating nung time na kaya ko na.. salamat ulit...

hi Jay,

it's a very complicated things kasi.. she knows that i am hurt and still she can not do anything about it.. she does not want me to go and she will be hurt if i do and so do i.. so i am staying as a friend and the pain will continue but what the heck... i love her. i know this is a foolish love but what can i do?

sana our situation is just a normal one then making decisions are not that hard.. but it's not. for how long this kind of situation will be is i do not know... seguro kakayanin ko na lang ang lahat wag lang siyang mawawala..

am i a fool? or just truly in love with the wrong woman?

ronnie 

..you are really a great lover that people will often mistake you for a fool...

..try this:

Let her go. Take your time. It may be hard at first but you need to learn how to live without her. Live your life as you want it (but i know that you really want her in your life)...so deviate from the normal things you do. rearrange your schedule perhaps or edit your phonebook..focus your self into something other than her. maybe you can rearange your room..in short...try new things that does not remind you of her.

...BUT...

..if after all of those things...you really feel...(i mean you really really feel it(fact: sometimes our emotions/feelings lie to us))...that you need her in your life..then you know what to do...

hi Jay, tnx for your advice as i will be needing that in the near future.. the time is clicking for me and it's ticking so fast.. for the meantime i am staying as a friend and savor the joy it brings but once i already heard the big bang then i have no choice but to follow your advice.. as i have no options left then but to continue with my life.. tnx for your advice.. i really appreciate it a lot.

hi PanYang, ilang taon ka na ba? nakakatuwa ka naman.. hayaan mo darating ang panahon na mai-inlab ka rin at sana wag mo nang maranasan yung mga naranasan ko.. salamat sa advice...

ehehe.... 20 na po ako.... pero bata pa naman ako dba? (at least yun ang pakiramdam ko!) marami pa po talagang mga bagay dito sa mundo ang hindi ko pa nararanasan... nalalaman ko lang po ang mga bagay bagay dahil sa pag-oobserve... pero ika nga nila iba pa rin magturo ang karanasan... :P

hi gie-ann, medyo me hawig nga ang situation natin just that mine is more complicated.. kumbaga yung situation niyo is moderate and manageable but not like ours.. anyway, tapos na rin naman eh pero mahirap talagang mag-move on.. pero kakayanin ko... sabi nga eh "ang itak masakit lang kung nakaamba, pero pag naitaga na napagtitiisan na".. ito na yun eh.. the sword of damocles already found its way straight to me...

for a while i have to take a rest.. it's so tiring not only physical, mental but more so on emotional aspect.. lilipas din naman ang sakit.. sabi nga nila "it's all in the mind"..

salamat ulit sa advice.. sana sa sunod kong pag-post eh iba na ang tema ko.. salamat sa lahat sa site na ito, i found some peace of mind just reading advices from the readers.. salamat sa inyong lahat.. 

oo nga eh. medyo may pgka-manageable pa din pla yung sa amin. complicated yet moderate. hehe.

sana nga. sana.

pero hindi naman kaagad ganun. isipin mo na lang. masuwerte ka pa rin dahil hindi lahat ng tao nasasaktan. iyo yan. hindi sa kapitbahay mo, hindi sa inaanak mo at hindi sa kung kaninuman.

yes, it's tiring. napagod, magpahinga, magmahal muli. yan ang formulang mas mahirap pa sa kahit anong math formula.

mag-iingat lagi. i wish yuo the best, Ronnie.

gie-ann enriquez

hi dyeppri, salamat sa advice pero medyo me edad na rin ako, i am in my early thirties na... kaso nung medyo bata pa rin ako hindi ako naging ganun ka-adventurous due to religious affiliations.. pero tama ka kasi mahirap pala yung laging ang consideration sa buhay eh ang gawin kung ano ang tama at mabuti at hindi na nako-konsidera kung ano naman yung gusto mo.. anyway, i have no regrets with my life just that i am not prepared with this kind of situation.. and at my age i am still very much vulnerable specially with the matters of heart..

hhhmmm, last night was the end of my foolishness... i hope so.. mahirap pala pag tinamaan lalo at swak sa puso.. salamat ulit..

                                                                                        libog at pagkauhaw----->

Sabi nga ni bob ong "huwag mo alalahanin kung hindi ka na nya mahal dahil baka bukas ay hindi mo na rin siya mahal, naunahan ka lamang." Pareho lang pala tayo eh. Kayang-kaya mo yan. Pagdating ng panahon ay tatawanan mo rin ang kalokohan mo sa kanya, kagaya ko na nasasabi ko ngayon na "buti naman at hindi siya ang nakatuluyan ko kasi ang pangit niya pala kapag tumanda na."hehehe 

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"I wouldn't mind if you were nice to me once in a blue moon."

hay macy, salamat sa advice... actually, we already reach the end of the tunnel last night so i have no choice but to continue with my life.. masakit sa kung masakit pero i have my own life to live.. sana lang kayanin ko.. hhhmmm sana kung simpleng boy meets girl situation lang sana ang lahat kaso hindi eh.. salamat ulit..

hi cassandra, salamat sa advice... i can sense that you are strong woman at sana lahat nang babae eh gaya mo. sabi ko nga sa mga nauna kong reply our situation is very complicated.. all that i have mentioned in my first post is true except that we have the same gender.. hhhmm i told her already what and how i feel and she do recognized it just that it's not possible and we both knew it.. kahit sa side niya naguguluhan din siya and obviously she also care for me.. i mean if we push through for any romantic relationship then more complications would arise.. masakit kasi andun ka na eh.. abot kamay mo na yung langit pero me mga bagay pala talagang hindi puwede kahit anong gawin..

kung sana lang puwede kong sabihin lahat para malaman at maintindihan ng makakabasa pero hindi rin kasi puwede di ba? actually, im thinking of posting one of my letter to her so that at least one could understand something about us but i am still thinking about it..

anyway, sana nga tapos na itong nararamdaman ko.. pero sabi nga dun sa nabasa ko "walang pag-ibig na nawawala sa isang iglap, sinusuyod nito ang kailaliman ng puso upang hadlangan ang kamatayan".. but i am moving on..

salamat ulit sa advices mo.. marami akong napupulot na magagandang payo at alam ko gagawin ko rin yun sa tamang pagkakataon..

SSShh.. Secret lang natin toh

hello musta update nito .. hehehe

hi cassandra, antagal na nito ah... ang totoo niyan kahit password ko na ginamit as "cantbrich" ay nakalimutan ko na.

nasa London na siya nag-aaral ng medecine at meron na ring bf... masaya na siya sa buhay niya at masaya rin ako para sa kaniya. paminsa-minsan nagkukumustahan pa rin kami through ym pero hangang ganun na lang.

Time heals all wounds sabi nga ni uncle Sam... lubhang makapangyarihan ang panahon at kaya niyang gamutin kahit ang pinaka-masakit na sugat na dulot man ng pag-ibig...

maganda ka pala, hehehe... ingat lagi.

"Ako'y maglalakbay, isang malungkot ngunit kinakailangang paglalakbay..."

matagal na ito... ito ang naging simula ng paggawa ko ng mga tula... dun ko ibinuhos lahat ng mga nararamdaman ko... sabagay hindi lang kasi isa ang naging sanhi ng kabiguan ko sa pag-ibig.

mas kumplikado kesa sa mga nabangit mo ang katayuan namin pero hayaan mong sarilinin ko na lang ang lahat.

at sa tanong mo... not only i let her go but my feelings as well though she remains to be special to me....

"Ako'y maglalakbay, isang malungkot ngunit kinakailangang paglalakbay..."