There was this girl who loved two guys at the same time but she didn't know which one she loved more. Someone taught her.

Ask yourself this question and answer it honestly :

"When you are happy, which guy would you want to share your happiness with?" The one you think of is someone you love.

Ask yourself another question and answer it honestly :

"When you are sad, which guy do you want to share your burden with?" The one you think of is also someone you love.

If you think of the same guy when you are happy & sad, that's the most perfect. But if you don't think of the same guy, I would advise you to chose the one you are willing to share your
sadness with.

In life, there are more sorrows than happiness. There are too many people that u meet that u can share your happiness with, not necessarily your lover.

If you live your life happily, you can also enjoy it alone.

In sadness, however, there are not many people willing to share your burden with you. If you are willing to tell someone your happiness, I am sure that person has got to be someone close & an understanding person to you.

But it shouldn't stop there. If that person only thinks of you when he is happy, but looks for someone else when he is sad, this lover is too unstable, he doesn't treat you as someone he can spend the rest of his life with.

Of course, I will be very happy if I am the first person to share his happiness. But, if he is sad, I will be too willing to stay by his side & ease his pain. Only then, will I believe that I hold a very important position in his heart.

If you are sad, who comes to your mind first?